The conversations you have with a companion are some of the most personal anywhere online. As AI companion platforms grow, the question of what happens to those conversations only gets more important, and you deserve a clear answer rather than vague reassurances.
So here is ours, plainly stated: Selira keeps every conversation private, never trains on your chats, and puts you in control of your own data. Those are not marketing lines. They are commitments we hold ourselves to every day.
Private by default
Your conversations are yours. They are not a product to be mined, packaged, or sold, and they are not quietly fed into anything that gets shared with other people. Privacy is the starting assumption, not a feature you have to go looking for in a settings page.
That default matters because trust is the foundation of any real connection. It is hard to open up to a companion if some part of you is worried about who else might be reading along. Removing that worry entirely is the whole point of building this way.
Privacy by default also means you do not have to be an expert to be protected. You should not need to comb through settings to keep your conversations to yourself. That should simply be how it works from the moment you start.
We do not train on your chats
Plenty of services quietly improve themselves by learning from what their users say. We made a deliberate choice not to do that with your private conversations. What you share with your companion stays between you and your companion, full stop.
You also stay in control of your data. If you want to manage or remove what is stored, that choice belongs to you, not buried behind a wall of fine print designed to make it difficult. Control should be real and easy to use, not theoretical.
The standard, not the exception
We believe this level of privacy should be the industry standard, not a rare exception worth bragging about. As the space matures, the platforms that genuinely respect their users are the ones that will earn lasting trust and stick around.
It is easy to say the right things about privacy and harder to build around them from the start. We chose the harder path because we think it is the only one that makes sense for something this personal.
Privacy you do not have to manage
The strongest privacy is the kind that protects you without any effort on your part. You should not have to be vigilant or technical to keep your conversations to yourself, and on Selira you do not. The safe choice is the default choice.
We think that is the only honest way to handle something this personal, and it is a standard we will keep defending as the whole space grows up.
We will keep holding ourselves to that bar, and we will keep being clear about how it all works. You should never have to guess what happens to your conversations, today or in the future.